Girls only want boyfriends who have great skills

I think girls (generally speaking) need to stop worrying so much about what the guy is thinking. (Side note: at what age will I stop using the word "girls" and start using "women"...I'm not ready, not now). Most of the time, I doubt they're really thinking anything. My friend is worried about emailing this guy about her earrings she left at his place last night. She doesn't want to be "that girl"- the one who will use any excuse to write him. Or see him again. But you know what....sometimes you really do leave your earrings behind, completely by accident. It happened to me somewhat recently. I thought about saying "f*ck it, they were cheap earrings anyway." But I liked them, I wanted them back, so I called him and said I was coming to get them. And for some reason, this makes me feel empowered. To tell you the truth, I've never left something behind in hopes of seeing a guy again. I'm not that tricky. Here's how I operate (in case anyone gives a sh*t): I do what I want (in terms of emaling, calling, any kind of contact), then immediately assume the worst. "They won't call me back" "They won't want to see me again" It's sick, I tell you. B/c why should I assume this? I think I'm a good person when it comes down to it, I like to have fun, I don't take everything too seriously, I'm funny, etc.... I also know I'm a little (understatment) high strung and OCD and nervous and paranoid, etc...but everyone has their thing(s). I don't care who knows this about me, I guess it just takes finding that person who likes me in spite of these "flaws". And I can't care if someone doesn't call me back. B/c honestly, it has nothing to do with me. You have to get to know me before deciding you don't like me. Then I can take it personally.
Reagan

As a little bonus, here's a quote from "Napoleon Dynamite"

Uncle Rico: So how are things going with you and your girlfriend?
Kip: Well, I think it's getting pretty serious. We chat online for like two hours a day so yeah, you could say it's getting pretty serious.